So it’s funny to think that I’m turning 25 on monday and I am just now in my first relationship. Sure I’ve gone on a handful of dates and kissed a few guys but never dated anyone and been anyone’s girlfriend. I always got the line of ‘You’re the kind of girl guys want to marry and they’re just not ready for that yet’ or ‘You’re too good for most guys so they don’t want to date you because they’re intimidated’ or ‘You’re amazing so you’re going to find someone amazing they are just waiting for you.’
I always doubted these lines because I figured after 6 or so years of hearing them they were just lines to make me feel better.
Then about a month ago I started kind of seeing Denney and he always treated me with such respect and care and was so sweet to me. We started dating 3 weeks ago and he is such a gentleman and cares about me and treats me so well and likes me for me. I don’t have to be different around him, all my weird quirks and funny faces I make and stupid things I do and say he enjoys. He knows I’m in love with music and bands and traveling and he loves and supports that I do that.
Basically what I’m getting at is if someone is feeding you the same lines (friends, family, guys, etc) just try to believe them. I was starting to get so upset and doubtful that I’d ever find someone to like me for me, and then suddenly it just happened and I’m so happy.